The power of being able to be a mirror for somebody else
What does it mean to be the force of being able to be a mirror for somebody else?
The working of the mirror has to do anything
with the attitude which we have towards other people.
In the way we treat other people we have a possibility to show other people the mirror in order to be able to see themselves and by seeing themselves they get an opportunity to recognize themselves in order to discover who the really are and what they really are.
How can our attitude has an influence to the way other people can see themselves in the mirror and how other people, in relation to how they see themselves, get influenced to their attitude of life and to the way they can express themselves. Or in other words, how can our attitude influence other people with the way they see themselves for who they really are at that moment and with the way, they will feel themselves, as a reaction to our attitude?
In which way I am able to live with other people
and to treat them?
A little example can make something more clear.
Recently a woman approached me with a problem at
my work. By something she did or said, I told her that she was 'the best, that
she was brilliant and that it was she who made the difference in finding a
solution for the problem'.
Somebody said to me: 'You are trying to much to
Take care that other people will not be better then that we are and it is even more terrible and creepy to tell others that they are better then the way we feel ourselves, seen through other persons eyes. That feeling is like a thread.
In any way it is like a thread for most of us.
Most people in this society do not really have a lot of self confidence. Most people will hear daily that they do act wrong, that they are more or less a good for nothing and that they have to change to grow better then they are now. Most people live in the consciousness of 'the struggle for live' and in the consciousness that the world and that live is a jungle where you have to fight to be able to eat and where you must be very carefully not to be eaten.
By the fact that our ego does experience a thread
because other people might be better then we are, we will be very pleased to
give other people the feeling that they are in any way less then we are.
And this is the
enormous mistake of our ego.
By everything we will radiate and sent out, by all the energies which we will throw into the universe, we will, just by the fact that the working of energy is an electric magnetic power, also pull to us, by the magnetic working, similar energies of similar frequencies.
There are only a very few people who really know who they really are and what they really are. There are only a very few people who know that they are unbreakable bound to the "Source of Being", which exclusively consists of "the unity and the oneness of all that is", which will be exclusively manifest by the feeling of " UNCODITIONAL LOVE ".
If you will tune in to the frequency of Love and if you will approach every person with Love, you will return to every person the recognition of the connection with the "Source of Being".
By the way we will act and react to other people, the only obstacle in the memory and the recognition of our "Source of Being" is the working of our Ego consciousness, is the working of our Ego drive.
By the way we treat other people, we will be able to change the 'hazy mirror image' for other people into a bright and clear mirror image in which they can see the memory and the recognition of who and what they really are.
If you will mean sincerely whatever you say and if you have a sincere intention to 'ncrease' other people and to bring them back to the status which they really are, then you will be increased by other people to give you the opportunity to have your memory and recognition grow.
In this way we will increase each other and we will increase the frequency of the energy of this World. And by these actions the life climate in this World will absolutely improve immensely.
For this reason:
If it is your opinion that this is a way of trying to
be charming or being a bootlicker then we will have a difference in opinions.
The only drive of this decision of the Ego consciousness is fear, coming from the ignorance of the fact that we are all bound with each other in unity, because there is only one immense body and that the consciousness of separation will only lead to fear, despair, battles, wars, chaos and illnesses.
" Heel mooi" in the image means " Very beautiful "
Show other people the mirror image of who they really are and what they
really are, by playing the correct string of their harp, which we all have
deep inside of us. By these actions their mirror image will be again ' Very Beautiful '.